the parenting project
by Kim Sveum
After three years of working a full-time job and being a full-time mom, something in my life needed to change. I was tired of feeling like I wasn’t able to give enough at work and, more importantly, give enough to my two kids at home. So, after months of soul searching, I approached my boss about working part time. I was worried about how he might react, but much to my surprise, we were able to reach a great compromise. I get to work a limited schedule telling stories about a subject close to my heart: parenting. But even better, I get to be at home more with my kids. The stay-at-home versus working mother subject has been the topic of heated debate for years. I know I felt guilty about being pulled strongly in two different directions, but something St. Mary’s Hospitalist Dr. Heather Rainwater shared with me the other day made me feel really positive about my decision. She said, “There is not one right way that everyone should be parenting, but there is definitely a right way for each family.” The decision to work full time, work part time or stay at home is a very personal one. Rainwater says families just need to take the time to make an informed decision. “There are so many factors to consider: financial issues, access to health insurance, your children’s development, their temperament, your temperament and what your job means to you.” While quality time with parents is extremely important to kids, Rainwater says mothers can still find a balance between work and family as long as their children receive consistent love and support. That love can come from parents, grandparents and even caregivers who are not family members. If you are going to work, do your research and find the care that best suits your child’s needs. And another good piece of advice: Once you make your decision, don’t compare yourself to people who have made a different decision. You and your family know what’s best. So, as I embark on my new journey, I’m thrilled to be working part time for a family-friendly television station. I’m happy that I’ll no longer have to spend thousands of dollars on child care and, most importantly, I look forward to each and every experience I’ll get with my kids in the afternoon. Wish me luck! Kim Sveum is the new Parenting Project reporter/producer for WKOW-TV. She has two sons, ages 3 and 1.
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